Transform Your Success: The Science Behind Age Being Your Secret Weapon

Discover why getting older makes you happier in business, backed by science. Learn how top leaders are giving back $3M in mentoring & why it matters.

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Stoy Hall, CFP®
January 29, 2025

The Age Advantage: What No One Tells You About Success After 40

Let me share something that's going to change how you think about your business journey. I just had this mind-blowing conversation with Dr. Deborah Heiser that flips everything we think we know about age and success on its head.

The Truth About Getting Older in Business

Remember how we're all worried about aging? Well, here's the kicker - science shows we actually get happier as we get older. No, seriously.

"We're happier as we get older. Doesn't matter if you can't run fast or you wear reading glasses or you're wrinkly, you're happier and you also become more satisfied with your life."

Why The Most Successful People Give Away Their Knowledge

Here's something wild - Dr. Heiser's organization has given away $3M in mentoring hours. For free. From Nobel nominees to astronauts, the top 1% are lining up to share their knowledge. But why?

The Hidden Power of Midlife

There's this thing called "generativity" - fancy word, simple concept. It's when you hit this sweet spot in life where giving back becomes your superpower. As Dr. Heiser explains:

"It's an emotional developmental stage we hit where we want to give a piece of ourselves to others without expecting anything in return."

Real Talk: Mentors vs. Coaches

Let's clear something up that might save you thousands:

"If you're getting paid, you're not a mentor. If you're getting paid, you're a coach, you're an advisor, you're a sponsor, you're whatever else."

Quick Action Steps for This Week

  1. Look left and right - your next mentor might be closer than you think

  2. Stop trying to know everything (the most successful people don't)

  3. Find one person you can help this week

Your 2025 Challenge

Here's what Dr. Heiser challenges us all to do:

"Make this the year of giving and the year of connecting."

Why This Matters Now

In a world obsessed with youth and hustle culture, we've got it backwards. The real advantage? It comes with age. Those wrinkles? They're your success lines. That grey hair? Wisdom in action.

What's Next?

This week, I want you to do something different. Instead of chasing the next business trick or marketing hack, look for someone you can help. Your experience - yes, yours - could be exactly what someone else needs right now.

Remember, the best part about getting older in business isn't just that we get happier - it's that we get to bring others along for the ride.

P.S. Have a story about mentorship? Hit reply and let me know. I read every response.

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